Neelu Matchmaking

33 St. James's Square, London SW1Y 4JS T: 44 (0)207 788 7432

Marriage is a beginning, the beginning of a family & life long partnership

neelu matchmaking story

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My Story

My name is Neelu and I am the founder of Neelu Matchmaking. I was born and brought up in New Delhi, India and have lived in London for over 20 years. I still have many family and friends all over India, so my connection with India is still strong.

I speak English, Hindi & Urdu fluently and have a deep understanding of both the Eastern & Western cultures, especially when it comes to family life, values and matrimony. I hold a Masters degree in Child and Family welfare which equipped me with understanding human psychology and behaviour, family dynamics and the changing needs of society.

Over the years I have enjoyed meeting a lot of people socially and often when I found out that they were unattached, I used to introduce them to other friends of mine in similar situations. On several occasions I found that the introductions I had made resulted in love and long term relationships which gave me an enormous sense of satisfaction and pride. Similarly, I also found success with introductions of friends and families that led to happy marriages.

When I started to speak to single people and researched about finding a suitable partner in the 21st Century ‘Western World’, there seemed to be a common theme in that many individuals found it increasingly difficult to find that perfect ‘match’. Modern lifestyles and the fast pace of life often meant that many highly eligible singletons had professional and financial success, but at the expense of forsaking their personal lives.

It became obvious to me that many successful professional and business people were so engrossed in their careers, and were time poor to meet a suitable partner. Of course many had an active social life, but romance was hard to find. The traditional Asian way of the ‘arranged marriage’ certainly didn’t appeal to these people and this system had mostly fallen out of favour with the younger generation in particular. The parents and relatives of these singletons would have been very active in finding a match for them in times gone by, but they too are finding this task very difficult as the expectations, criteria and independence of the new generation means that the ‘net’ has to be set far wider, which for many is not possible. We live in a Global multi-cultural world and finding that life partner can sometimes feel like looking for a needle in a haystack!

It was clear to me that dating sites lacked the personal touch and many people felt considerable discomfort with them, with the individuals posting on them largely anonymous and not vetted. In particular many women have safety concerns with them , with plenty of negative stories around these sites.

The clear gap in the market to have a confidential, bespoke and very personal service for this sector of the population encouraged me to make my previous ‘match making hobby’ into a formal business hence the launch of my business “Neelu Match Making”.

My service is highly confidential and discreet.

There are no guarantees in life but the one thing that I can promise is that I will put our heart and soul into the search for your soul mate. I am absolutely passionate about what I do and nothing gives me more pleasure than connecting like-minded people on their life’s journey to make a positive difference in their lives.

Thank you for visiting my site and please don’t hesitate to contact me if you feel that I can be of assistance to you, your family or your friends.

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“There are no guarantees in life, but I can promise you that I will make a determined effort in finding you your life partner.”

– Neelu

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